The insignificance of love for some people reache sextremes
unreasonable, as is the significance of their greed . For those who value gestures of love, it is difficult to understand what is greedy. The difference it makes, whether you live in peace or in war, depends on who you are. There are people who, in order to feel at peace, need to take the peace of others. They are disconcerted and discontented when everyone around them is happy and finding their life a delight. For these, there is no pleasure in a life, calm, peaceful, withoutexcesses physical, emotional, social, intellectual, financial. Tranquility for some people is synonymous with inertia, childishness and even routine. Such individuals, will never be complete and satisfied, with what they have, something will always speak to them, because they lack the basics, good character. They find justifications in the unjustifiable to harm, humiliate,prejudice, offend, demean,kill, steal, exterminate, everything and everyone around them. It's not uncommon for people around them to get murdered, commit suicide, or go crazyWhere they are there's always someone in
trouble. Be it troublesome, emotional, financial, physical, intellectual, all are always caused by the person, who will always, always be seen as the victim of whom he was the executioner, it is the rule, not the exception. Yet most people don't realize who they are, and what is hitting them always leads to the archetype of divine punishment, bad luck, lack of attention, or something else in itself to justify their defeats. If people manipulated, used, wounded and slaughtered by manipulators, narcissists and psychopaths, they have some kind of guilt, it is the fault of beingbeings normal, human, and loving, being unable to react to each other, as a rule, an eye for an eye, a tooth per tooth.You can't and you shouldn't, tell yourself, it was my mistake, my defeats only happened because of me and only me, because that's an outright lie, that you just put in your head, that you're willing to remain manipulated by life whole, for another to climb on top and ride on your head, without pity.
The mistakes made by us consciously, calculated and that our intervention was necessary for them to exist, these yes must be taken seriously by us and we must accept our guilt for them.
But mistakes made on the basis of hypnotization, manipulation and external aggressions, we cannot assume as our own, because they were our aggressor's mistakes and not ours.
Don't cry for someone else's guilt, if you have to cry for guilt, cry for your guilt, knowing
What you do could change and deliberately did not change, in a situation, and made a landscape face, it is solely your fault, because you were given the opportunity to do something and you simply crossed your arms in a silent attitude and the negative result, it just happened because of you.
When we take actions without weighing on the other, or we know we're going to harm someone, but we do it anyway, because we think it's cool or fun, we become sadistic.
So if you are a sadist, rethink your life, and leave the lives of the harmless and innocent in peace, leaving it and going to live with those who are like you. being of this or that belief does not make you perfect in anything, nor does it make others wrong, the beliefs are there, just to make us understand, where people of that nationality were crying out to God for help and asking to be taken out of his nation, that evil, because he couldn't stand it any longer.
This is not to say that in another nation or kingdom, this is not common and even pleasant.
So never delude yourself that you are bigger or better than anyone, whether from the animal, vegetable, or human kingdom, because to the universe, you are just another grain of sand in the
desert, or in the sea, nothing more .Don't spend your life remembering yesterday and throwing your mistakes in your face, because life will throw your mistakes in your face day after day, while you do this.
The mistake made yesterday is gone, if the person stopped making mistakes today, great, if not, that's his problem.
We are in the world to realize where we fail with ourselves and with the means and improve ourselves, to have a better result than the previous one, not the other way around.Learn to put a stone on top, inside your
heart and reason, in matters and people, that do you harm and harm and go on without them.Don't look back but look forward, yesterday you cannot
change, today you choose how it will be, and the future will be a consequence of today. Don't reframe things in favor of people who use you and seek to destroy you, for their sakes, they won't do the same for you and they didn't think twice about running over you like a train over a rail. Heal your emotions, don't keep hatreds, grudges, envy, fears, angers, but don't be a fool, to wipe the slate clean, for those who are capable of treacherous and oppressive attitudes about you, and ask you to reframe things just to be able to manipulate you and hurt you a lot more later. Stay awake, in an emotional sense, bad people will not become good because you treat them well, nor will good people become bad because you treat them badly.Each one is what it is.
Know that no one leaves where they are feeling good, and no one leaves what is good for them.
Do not think that someone changes because they are in financial need, because other people have abandoned them or because they have lost something, people only change when they believe that if they and only they had done differently, everything would be more positive and happy in their lives. Nobody changes for others.People change only for themselves, that is, for what is good for them.
People who are in the habit of pointing out the mistakes of others, speaking ill of everyone, killing, stealing, persecuting, humiliating, offending, stealing, manipulating others, do not change, they pretend a change to you just to get something they want, then you discard as wrapping paper. Understand, you are not wrapping paper. You are a human being who deserves to be loved, respected and live happily.What does not provide you with this, discard. As others discard you.
Being good is not being silly, materialistic, arrogant, arrogant and manipulative people. You don't prove anything to manipulative people, manipulators, they just listen to themselves, so forget about them like they do to you. Nobody is bigger or smaller than you, we are all different and full of flaws. But it is not because we fail that we have to live enslaved in toxic relationships whether they are familial or not. Don't kill your dreams, because they didn't come true the way you want, turn them into something achievable, tangible. And have fun when the other comes to want to force you to be the nothing he wants, just for him to have significance. Love starts with ourselves and extends to the middle if you don't love yourself. How do you want others to love you? Validate the love of others for you, respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, you don't love yourself. Don't let someone else disrespect you, be it, your father, your mother, your brothers, your children, your spouse, your boss, or your friend. A relationship that does not fit respect for the other, does not fit the other. Once you are not able to have respect for someone, don't relate to that person anymore. Where there is brutality, pain, violence, whether verbal, physical, emotional, intellectual or financially, there is no such thing as a relationship. No, there is a reason in human relationships that does not do all the participants good. If one is in disarray from the others, he or she must move away, as he will always be unhappy in the environment in question. Yesterday ended yesterday, today is today, and tomorrow, if you exist, live happily.I hope this report of mine can help you, reader, to overcome your fears and your defeats and be able to serve as a light at the end of the tunnel (not a train), for your physical and emotional victories, and serve to give you strength, to get up every day and say to yourself, thank God I lived, to read this. Hugs, divine in your life, is what I want for you. And as a great love of says mine, I went.Capítulos relacionados
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